Mayra Cardi decided to give her husband, Arthur Aguiar, another chance after being cheated on 16 times and, despite having revealed conditions to get back together, seems to have extracted of this whole situation a lesson on a supposed difference between pride and self-love. In an interview with a podcast, the coach talked about it.
“Women meet me on the street and they say, ‘I won’t admit it. I love my husband, but I’m not going back with him because I love myself. I tell her: ‘it’s not that you love yourself, it’s that you’re proud’. Because if you loved yourself, you wouldn’t be doing this to you. You just told me you’re hurting, but you’re not coming back. The name of this is pride and not self-love“, argued Mayra, whose husband has been quoted for the “BBB 22”.
Cardi’s argument didn’t stop there. “Self-love is doing what makes you feel good. If it makes you feel good to be with him, it’s because of pride that you’re not coming back. So, we confuse a lot of self-love with pride. ‘Oh, I have self-love’, no, you are proud. So, if she puts it on the scale and sees that he’s wrong, she won’t come back, but she doesn’t come back out of pride, because you love yourself and think that’s self-love? No, that’s ego“, finished.