Denice Klarskov and her husband have been together for 20 years – but also have sex with others: ‘Of course it’s hard’.

Denice Klarskov and her husband, Mark Malmros, have been together for 20 years. It is a milestone in many relationships, but when you – like them have been together since she was 15 years old, and she is a porn model by the way, it is not written in the stars that the relationship can stand the distance.

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For Denice Klarskov, there is one particular reason why it has succeeded, namely that the key words in their relationship have always been: ‘Agree, respect and understanding’.

“We respect our own lives next to the life we ​​have the same. This means, among other things, that Mark has his free right to his life. That is, he can have sex with others – if he wants to. “

She can do the same.

Denice Klarskov, has been with her husband for 20 years.  Photo by Janus Nielsen.

Denice Klarskov, has been with her husband for 20 years. Photo by Janus Nielsen.

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“Mark is my love, but I need to be a shank – and sometimes to be free – or at least not limited – by a place and a human being, just because I have chosen to live with him,” she says.

But one thing is to say. Something else to remember when the music is playing, the alcohol is in the blood – and the jealousy is ready in the starting box.

Denice Klarskov has worked as a porn model all her adult life, but since the couple founded DK Production in 2004, they have produced porn films themselves.

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Mark Malmros is technically responsible, while Denice Klarskov is the woman behind the company, whose mission is to make ‘Danish porn with a clear conscience, satisfied actors and consumers’. Next door, she runs a sex shop and a platform with live webcam.

“I do not spend as much time on the sheets as I have done, but it still happens that I am allowed to be creative. I love making films and Mark can only be with me in the job I have because we are open about my job being more of a lifestyle. “

The couple does not live in a polyamorous relationship where it is the right to fall in love with others that is the focal point.

“We have no relationship with others, but may need free time and freedom to seek confirmation from other people.”

They both understand that the desire for others is not about their partner being wrong or too boring. When they seek the attention of strangers, it is only about themselves and their own need to be seen.

Denice Klarskov started as a porn model, but today produces porn films herself in the production company DK-Production, which she has with her husband, Mark Malmros.  Photo DK-Production.

Denice Klarskov started as a porn model, but today produces porn films herself in the production company DK-Production, which she has with her husband, Mark Malmros. Photo DK-Production.

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For Denice Klarskov, openness about affairs is crucial.

“If you have to do it in secret, it will be different – more romantic. For us, being with others is like having a drink on Saturday… and then it’s Monday again. “

They use their freedom when the need arises:

“It’s not something that is fixed – it’s not Thursday in odd weeks and we do not go to swinger club every other week. It happens when it happens, ”she says.

For example, when she is at work and away from home for a few weeks.

“Then maybe he goes to town, meets a fucking sweet girl and bangs with her – and then I do not get fucked mad about it – at least not ‘go apart-angry’,” she says, because it can arouse strong feelings:

“Of course it’s hard – fucking hard… because situations arise that you can not control, and we can both cry, scream and slam the doors.”

It can happen if he has been with a woman who is too close to her. Or if the balance becomes too skewed:

“If I work really hard, I go to work for my freedom while he walks in the city. Then I might as well go out with someone for fun. When I get pushed into jealousy, it often ends in some wild city trips. “

The jealousy fills up the most when at times they feel bad individually.

“When one doubts oneself, it can cast dark clouds over the life we ​​have chosen. But each time, we become wiser and better at accepting each other – and ourselves. “

Until now, they have been able to maintain the belief that they want the best for each other, therefore they have been able to stick together for 20 years.

“We give each other space because we love each other. It’s crazy that I’ve now known Mark more than half my life. He’s my other half, it does not work if he is not there. “

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